Fris, I was looking thru your bloggers handbook, nicely done, remind me when I get back from Vegas and I will put a link up to you on our resources page (too much going on right now)
However, I did find an error on
http://www.bloggershandbook.com/adult-directory.php
You have Hot Blog Sites linked as
http://www.directoryworthy.com/%3Ca%20href=
www.hotblogsites.com and
www.directoryworthy.com are two different sites they can submit to