those are some funny replies you guys gave me.
yes there is some background to this story that makes even me confused. he was a friend in middle school who i had no problem with. he stuck up for me once on the recess playground by telling another kid that i was apart of the group. as we as kids grow up i could tell he was becoming a dickhead towards me and others. some things he did. so now in later years i don't know what his problem is. DH his name is Paul. i don't like to be confrontational and the thing he said was a drop in the bucket anyway.