All depends on what yoru looking for and what your IDEAL is in life. I have found like attracts like. Im a nice guy and I won
But winning means different things to different people
To me winning was finding someone I could spend my life with and grow old together with. To others it might be counting off notches in ones belt, or whatever. In the end if your happy and content you win, If your not Happy and content try something totally different, compleate opposite of what you are currently trying. Thats what I did and I am happy and content with my family