well ive been gay my whole life and believe me, its hard wired. I liked men before I knew what sex was, I always had an attraction to men.
I did NOT want this when I was younger and had no friends and felt like an outcast over it. who the fuck would "choose" that as a young person?
bvf has a great peice on his audio blog called "How stella got a gay man"
http://mrnogood.com/ skip ahead about 18 minutes and he talks about a gay kid he went to school with, and I was the same way as a kid lol. its funny to listen to and its so true
