Originally Posted by TopBucksTrixxxia

Yup - I do the same, the thing is that you kinds get lost in it and you go over that 'past' so often that you kinda made a path for your future behaviour. Need to think where the mistakes were and say 'this is what I should have done', see the path - envision it, cuz the next time you're faced with the same crossroad, the bad one flashes back with warning signs all over it and the right path will be blaring in white saying, 'this is it - this is the way you decided it should go this time'

You can't change the past so no reason to dwell in it - focus on 'NOW' cuz this you have control over. It starts small but then you'll see things falling into place more and more and then you'll think - DAMN why didn,t I think of this sooner.