It really depends.
I probably would date a girl that had a kid ONLY if the father had absolutely no contact with them. If he hauled ass and I was able to eventually adopt the child then yes, I would go for it and raise the child as my own.
However, if the father still has contact then I wouldn't touch it with a 10' pole! The reason being is because it will be hard to raise the kid with another influence (which is probably influencing the child to think you're an asshole). It could and will present tons of problems. The kid will always have daddy to get his back and you would be SERIOUSLY limited to how you discipline the child.
Fucking a single mother on the other hand....
