Originally Posted by C_U_Next_Tuesday

depends.

ie: My hubby had an ex fuck buddy who I knew and liked. When she found out we were dating..she acted very strange. The few times we ran into her out in public , she all but tried to fuck my husband in front of me. I knew they had a hot sexual relationship and I wasnt jealous.. but I was not happy that she was acting like a fruit all of a sudden..she was married with kids herself. If she came around after many years.. it would be to fuck my husband..no bones about it, she would not be welcome.

I have a guy whom I have loved since I was 23, I even told hubby that if anyone I was soulmates with..it was this guy. We never hooked up as a couple for one reason or another..We only kissed once and that was when he found out I was leaving the state and he didnt want me to go. He has always stayed in touch . Last year he came to town, but hubby was working..so we hung out at the house with the family and shot the shit for a few hours which is all he had. The next time he came to town, he took my whole family including hubby our for some good dinner and a good time.
He called me the next day and admitted his purpose was to come up here and see if I was happy and if I wasnt ..to steal me away. He is respectful enough to see I had a good thing going and didnt want to even fuck with that. We still keep in touch.