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Originally Posted by SilverTab
Fucksakes: Just ask yourself this question: If no one you knew (including yourself) would be circumcised...would you do it?
If not, we agree that its just done for the appearance....and to go with the majority right?...
Seriously..I highly doubt your kid will die, get an infection, or any other problem from it...no one I know of had problems because he is circumcised...no one that I know of had problems because they aren't....I'm sure some isolated case and small % of incident can happen in both situation...but you can say that about pretty much everything...so again..it basically comes down to the appearance aspect of it...
I dont think it worth the pain the baby will endure...sure he wont remember it...who cares..will you hurt your child on purpose and justify it by "He wont remember as an adult"...I also think he should be able to make the choice himself...BUT....i'll say it again...it comes down to: Do you want him to look "normal" BUT cause him pain (and a minor risk of infection etc.) or do you want to leave him as he is...without any surgery, at the risk of him getting a weird look from a girl who see an uncut penis for the first time....(he could still decide to have the surgery done later)....
This is what its down to if you ask me...the answer to this question however, is your choice...!
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that pretty much sums it all up perfectly.
I come to conclude that I will talk to my girlfriend more about it, maybe giving him the choice to cut it, asking more questions with a doctor.
maybe the fact that I don't have a cut penis that is why it is more of a concern to me and the girlfriend, its a new thing to us, not sure how to deal with it or what ever it maybe, cutting just seems the natural thing to do. and thats really all it comes down to. the fact of the baby getting hurt a little or alot is the only reason it makes my stupid choice a hard one.