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Originally Posted by sarah_webinc
Okay..first of all..I answered you a year ago about my sex life. I did not need to but I did. For me it was like cutting myself. I need to feel SOMETHING that wasn't his death. It was my birthday and I *KNOW* he wouldn't have been upset. Again, you never responded to anything I wrote in that post nor the post from Marc's best friend but instead decided it was much better to kick me.
As far as being a BBW goes. I go to the gym three days a week and do atleast 500 calories. I watch what I eat and very rarely eat fast food or anything I haven't cooked myself without cooking oils,etc. Yet, I am still fat. I have been fat all my life and I do have a medical condition I talked about a number of times on this board before. I even made a comment about it when Amelia posted the pics in this thread.
However, despite that I really don't care what you think about my size. Read this thread..there is a guy in here that I know finds me and women like me attractive. Of course I know that is the minority opinion but It doesn't bother men in the least that others dont' find me attractive. Again, I have been big all my life so I have been through all the negative things and I'm not going to let a keyboard warrior drag me back down into the self-hatrid pit.
I also don't believe for one second you are trying to help me.
So, beyond the weight how did I bring on the recent experiences in my life? By marrying a disabled man? By being bisexual? What exactly other than me being fat offends you so much.
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Just the answers to some of these questions scream "ISSUES" and you dont need any special empathic abilities to see that.
I have no issues with you being overweight and im aware there are zillions
of people out there that are into that. Good for you as long as it reasonably healthy and making you happy/satisfied.
But thats simply not the case. I can see that.. and im fuckign sure as hell you can see that as well so why should i pretend your doing well and congratulate you with that?
There are a bunch of sheep doing that for you already.
And youre right im not trying to help you.. did i ever say i was?
Im commenting on you in a thread that is semi-dedicated to doing just that on
a public board. Help is something private and im not yet big-headed enough to think i could make a difference if i did it the right way and try.
Im telling you to snap out of it and get yourself the life you always wanted
but for some reason you dont think you deserve. Start working on things
before its too late. And what those things are? I have no clue.. i dont know you.. i just know those things exist and its up to you to pick em and work it.
Like last time just my opinion.