Thanks for your responses you all
It isnt that I cant find traffic... I do shows on Camz and ACH and have approx 800 - 1200 people in there but I am getting burnt out. I feel like I am doing the same things over and over again and it seems the same people make those circuits.
I have never used an affiliate before and I dont know what genre my site seems to fit in other than softcore/ hardcore 70/30. I am at a crossroads. Dont get me wrong, I do well enough, I just know I can do better