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Originally Posted by punkworld
Some would argue that part of being a "mature adult" is realizing that there is more to life than money and sex, and that one important part of wisdom that comes with mental maturity is not to be as quick to judge others.
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Honey,
Although they are big factors of life. I never once said there wasn't more to life then sex and money.
But I'm sorry, in any relationship those "warm gushy feel good" emotions and feelings only last so long. After that, you are either a team in it for the long haul or your not.
Having a 50/50 relationship all the time is unreasonable to exepect.
Sometimes it's 60/40 or 80/20 and sometimes 100/0
But for one person in a relationship to haul the entire load all the time while the other sits on their ass.....
That's not love...
One person is either being used. IE: Sex for stuff.. therefore whore.
Or
In the case where one person thinks the sun shines on his partner.. It's co-dependancy.