Originally Posted by RainMailer

She never seemed to have any of these sympthoms while I was here. However keep in mind that I work 5 days per weeks and go to school four nights of the week. I usually didnt get home till 11P.M. maybe she was being starved for attention but we both made the sacrifice when I decided to go back to school. I spent as much time as I could with her but I was very aggrivated with her not taking care of the house and helping me with my stress from school and work. It seemed to be that it was just about her and her feelings she never made an attempt to care for my needs. But even so if the marriage was doomed I cant understand how she could just walk out and leave me and her kids. If she wasnt doing drugs before I find it very highly unlikely that she isnt doing them now considering who she is with. The guys work everyday but that doesnt mean he doesnt have a problem.