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Update:
Today I met with my lawyer and Seperation papers are being drawn as we speak. My wife agreed to give me Sole custody, she agreed that me and the kids is in their best interest, and she has agreed to supervised visitations for six months to give the kids time to heal without introducing the new guy. She also stated that in six months if our kids counselor still doesnt agree that it is in the kids best interest to introduce the new guy then she will not. She told me that she wants the kids to have a stable life and that she is not able to give them that. Papers will be signed by the end of the week and later in the month a judge will sign them. Right now my tactic is to keep her in agreement! But if she changes her mind she knows that I have her where I want her and that she is in a battle that my lawyers says in unlikely that she will not win. Each day that goes by that she does not see the kids hurts her more and more. I feel confident and most of all I am getting over the bitch. Its all about the kids not her or myself. Oh yeah the company I work for told me to spend what I needed to get the kids surely there is a limit but they are great people and I am very thankful. Thanks guys for all the advice and I have read every post including the fucked up ones.
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