Saraya... The thing under your name is an automatically generated title based on the number of posts you have made. Everyone with fewer than 1,000 hits has something stupid like that, don't worry.
The spamming people werer referring to in your thread is that it looked kinda like you weren't really posting for advice, but just to get attention for your site. Its good form to wait around a bit and get the feel for the place, and post in other peoples' threads, before starting one about your own stuff.
Not that I listened to that advice when I got here, though, so don't worry too much. Good luck with your site. There are some great designers on here who might just give you some good advice.