Originally Posted by Quickdraw

4. Never ever talk bad about your childrens Mother to them.
She may be the scummiest piece of shit on the planet, but you don't need to be the one to enlighten them. They will know these things in time, and possibly be able to handle it better. The kids will take your negative comments personally as she is still their Momma,to them. This could drive a wedge between you and your kids, and again, right now, your kids need you more than ever.