Well...lets just say this....i dont know Newbreed or Arika..that well...but Newbreed i can only give you this advice speaking from total experience...ok here it goes:
Newbreed, Arika did you a favor, you may not see that now, thank your lucky stars no kids and you did not really burn that many good years...you got out and it will become really clear to you soon...
Now for Arika...the guy who likes to grab girls who are married, the funny part of this situation is this, if she punked Newbreed while she was married to him, why would this guy think he is anything more or less....he is next very soon. Then the best part of this for the "new guy" is how can you trust a girl who can do that to her husband?....lol.....
In my case i got to say that to the guy, and of course i was right, and it was ugly and sad for them both but i was happy to be out of that situation.
Sometimes things happen no matter how bad or sad, and they always make some good sense, you just cant see it while its going on, but its always that way....
