Originally Posted by GFX Wiz

Bill...take it from a guy who has been married and divorced...married and divorced...married and divorced...life is full of cycles. I have also been rich and poor...rich and poor...rich and poor...

The sooner you come to grips with the fact that the only person in this world you can control is yourself -- and the only one responsible for your emotions is yourself, the better off you'll be. You're clearly a standup guy for dealing with the business end of things in an open and honest manner but don't ever let anyone catch you saying that someone else is the reason you live...unless it's your child(ren). As sad as it is, you'll come to learn that women come and go...come and go...come and go...and nothing is "forever." Die hard romantics (I used to be one) do just that..they die hard.



Best of luck to you with all matters. Take care of the business and for the personal, move on, never look back...you've already proven in this thread you're a better person than the one whom you claim to be "living for." Don't give her the satisfaction of even thinking for one minute that you're less a person than you are. Women who cheat are cheaters...it's just what she has proven herself to be -- and cheaters NEVER cheat because of any short comings of their partner...they cheat because they have problems. Accept it, live with it and move on -- you're fine. And DO NOT live with some sort of rescue fantasy that you can "fix her" -- forget about it and move on.