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Old 10-11-2005, 07:31 PM  
KCat
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You need to get a legal access order written up. If you two can't agree on something & have a lawyer draft & file it together, then you need to go to court. You have NO visitation right now. Going to court can only give you more time with your child. You have absolutely nothing to lose.

Get your paperwork in order so you can quickly provide your previous tax returns, current expenses & EVERY SINGLE receipt for stuff you've bought for your kid & support payments you've made.

Child support is based on your income. It's a set rate that is the same for everyone in that income bracket. She will probably try to claim that you've never paid a dime (very common), so get started now by paying directly through the gov. They pull it out of your bank every month, pay her & it's all kept track of so you don't have to produce receipts every time she feels like taking you back to court over the next 18 years.
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