Originally Posted by MacDaddyPlaya

The problem goes both ways. Here is why relationships fail. When we start dating and courting (this is true for both sexes) we don't show who we really are. Guys act all sweet and sensitive, spend a lot of time on the girl and with the girl. Girls go out of the way to look good, not mind some of the little things. Both sexes put on an act. So when the two people fall in love (or just serious like) they are not falling for the real person. Then, as time goes by and each person's true self comes out more and more, they realize they don't really dig each other that much any more. JMHO, ICBW