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Originally Posted by MacDaddyPlaya
The problem goes both ways. Here is why relationships fail. When we start dating and courting (this is true for both sexes) we don't show who we really are. Guys act all sweet and sensitive, spend a lot of time on the girl and with the girl. Girls go out of the way to look good, not mind some of the little things. Both sexes put on an act. So when the two people fall in love (or just serious like) they are not falling for the real person. Then, as time goes by and each person's true self comes out more and more, they realize they don't really dig each other that much any more. JMHO, ICBW
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yeah, this makes alot of sense. maybe thats why i am single too. i always act like the clown i am and i'm single. they already know i'm a nutjob and stay away
normally if i meet a chick i like i will tell them straight up all about me. the djing, the partying, the adult biz, the drive to succeed, etc. most women take that as the hint that my career will take priority over a relationship.
maybe it wasn't the right thing to do telling them too that i will leave them if they get all out of whack and start living on pizza, bon bons, and big macs.
