seeric

ok, so as everyone knows already, us guys are visual creatures. we like to look at women,.........alot. (thank god or this business wouldn't exist). so, with that being said. men choose women that they are attracted to to be their girlfirends or whatever, right? we have a small range of what we find attractive and what we don't. i am writing this from just recent things that i have witnessed with a friend of mine. i myself am anti-relationship and have been for 5 years or so. ok, back to the subject at hand.

when a guy meets a girl that he is attracted to, he hooks up with her, goes out on dates, they play all lovey dovey, and the guy is happy because she is still what he is attracted to. well, time passes, and i don't mean decades, more like months, and the girl just lets herself go to shit, and fast. now, the guy is no longer happy and since he is a visual creature, wants to basically put a gun to his head because he isn't physically attracted anymore. if women already know that we are visual creatures and that almost overrules anything in our tiny little brains, how come they let themselves go? if you can say the same thing about men, so be it, but i see it way ore with women.

is it the mentality that the girl has him on lock and he's whooped or what is the cause? do they just become comfortable and complacent with that person and the feelings that they have developed to where they don't think personal appearance matters anymore?

this is not a question to degrade anyone, but something that i find very common. lots of men complaining that their wife "used to be so fine then i hooked up with her and she quit caring" is something i hear alot. is it the same way for men too? i don't see that side of it, so could be.

if people are motivated by attraction in general when it comes to satisfying those cravings of sex appeal, how come we all don't automatically just stay looking good to keep our mates interested?