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when there's a greencard involved there's always a possibility that the relationship may not be genuine then again, always a possibility that it may very well be genuine and you maybe letting a good thing slip away. it's a tight spot. just about anytime you date a non-immigrant (black, white, brown or purple) this will be an issue. I know a few very successful marriages came out of this kinda situtation then i know a lot of horror stories as well. trust your heart, if it says that it really believes BEYOND ANY DOUBT (ie. if your one sided love hasn't completely blinded you hehe) that your partner REALLY loves you then go for it but if there's any doubt whatsoever then don't.
Also, H1 visas can be extended atleast once and also, company who gets her a H1 visa normally sponsors her for a greencard too.. why is that being different for your g/f? If she got a greencard on her own and still held on to you then there'd be no doubt at all about her intentions.
Don't worry about what parents say cos your parents won't be marrying her you will. besides parents can be pretty ignorant sometime too. reminds me my aunt told me when I was marrying my g/f who's an Itallian descend "born & raised" here that she thought my g/f was marrying me for a greencard. LOL.
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