|
EDUCATION VISA!!!! find a cheap, cheap school, sign her up fast for a couple semesers, just to get an educational visa.. they cant deny visa's for educational purposes, i dont think.. i now nothing of these sort of things, but maybe something like this is workable.. look into it,, by the way, what country are you in.. as far as marriage, that's up to you.. only you know if you're ready for the lifetime commitment,, the answer is in your heart.. do what your heart tells you. think of few simple things..
Is this woman your best friend? she has to be if your thinking marriage, it wont work if she isnt.
Can you share every thought, feelings or secrets with her? if some topics, things you feel uncomfortable talking to her about, chances are the marriage will fail.. the key to a successful marriage is COMMUNICATION!!!
Do you want to grow old with her? if not, dont waste your time on marriage
what if after, things dont work out, now she's a citizen, & your hearts broken, but annulments/divorces can be messy & expensive.
as far as family thoughts on her race/color whatever, it is YOUR decision & your family MUST accept it. Tell them how you fell.. spill your fucking guts, they're your family, they will adjust. they have to.
|