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Originally Posted by WarChild
Sounds like the contributed to the problem, yes. That's different than it being her fault, obviously. It's called de-escalation. You practice it when you want to diffuse a situation. Making a comment on the way out the door is not practicing it.
There comes a point when you sometimes have to choose between being in the right, and getting out safely. Bad choice this time around.  |
She phoned me when things started heating up. She was waiting for me to pick her up THERE. Unfortunately I live a half-hour drive from there. Maybe I didn't explain things well.
Stop blaming the victim... No matter what should have been done, the blame for this rests entirely on the attacker.