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Originally Posted by NichePay - StuartD
I've tried that... the answer was:
"Don't you know what I want? Are you telling me that you don't really know me? After all this time, I'd think that you could figure out a simple little thing like that. If you don't care to pay attention and know anything about me, I'm not going to tell you!"
I still don't know  |
I have to admit that many times, both sexes do the same thing...which is expect the other to know somehow.....as if either one can divine the information....and it's just not possible...
First fight I ever had with my honey ....I asked him to take a bag to the next door neighbour's house. He was very agreeable....and said sure.
Fifteen minutes later, the damned bag was still on the table and I got mad....
His answer? If you want me to do it now, then you have to say 'now'.
I never forgot that....
Presuming and assuming...just makes things messy. Always define and ask, no matter how small or trivial you think it is.....