its optin marketing but i dont know the dating/adult scene gets complaints or what not i know i can market my program for weeks on a regular usa host and have no trouble, so SPAM no.....many peopel do consider optin spam as well but fuck them
i will even host if i have to, i have all optin records to proof the emails being optined in the past few months.
so if anyone is interested in working with our marketing plz contact me on icq ;)