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hey I apologize for the long delayed response. Just crazy schedule lately.
1. How the fuck does a Married Mormon Political Activist end up IN FRONT OF the camera for gay porn? I was in the middle of my divorce when I accidentally met a guy who did casting for gay porn and he asked me to do it. I am by nature rather curious. I thought what the hell they want to pay me to have sex with this guy who I think is kind of hot anyway. Seemed like a no brainer at the time.
2. Did you leave your wife or did she leave you? We met when I was 15 and she was 17 in the early 80?s at a night club called Club Zoo, everyone was ambiguous then. After being friends for 10 years we got married. That ruined a great friendship. We both agreed being married was not our thing and decided to end it together. No animosity or recriminations. We did not like being married.
3. Talk about your homosexuality and comming out. I decided I liked having sex with both genders when I was 15. My girlfriend at the time brought it up and kind of opened a new world view to me. The hardest part was dealing with Mormon culture and family. So over the years I had to conform outwardly but I always had friends who knew the truth. I think the toughest period would have been while a student at BYU and being a Mormon missionary in Quebec. I sure did learn how to subsume myself for something else, how to turn off emotional response until a later date. In other words self-denial. Perhaps that is one of the reasons I am such and extreme Libertarian and individualist now. And I try to elicit that quality in people around me.
4. Why did you create cybersocket?
Tim and I created Cybersocket because it was an Idea we developed together a weeks or so after meeting and it was the first time in my life I ever felt compelled to follow through with a thing even when I did not really understand how to get from here to there. And since then it?s just been following the path that seems to be the most obvious one to follow.
5. Have you ever hit on a straight guy? No. I don?t hit on people unless there is some demonstrated interest, obvious interest. But I just don?t respond even if a straight friend of mine is being forward especially if they are drunk. It does not mean that there is real interest. It?s the same thing with any person who is inebriated, male or female. I prefer lucid sex anyway.
6. What kind of return do you get out of the parties you throw at internext?
Well, good will is the first thing. Second it?s getting to know people when they have their defenses down. That is how to really get to know someone and ?get the measure of the man.? The most important aspect of the parties we produce is that they are for the benefit of our sponsors and guests. We like being good hosts. And we want our sponsors to meet each other and for our guests to have access to the sponsors who are some of the biggest players in the gay & non-gay Internet world.
7. How often do you get checked for STDs? Every 6 months. I practice safe sex. Have ever since I was about 18. Every get anything bad? Gonorrhea twice. Thankfully it?s one of those things you know you have. discuss your thoughts on condoms and protection, I do not understand why people are not having safe sex now. The information has been freely available for decades now.
8. If you couldn't work in porn - what would you do for a living? I would own a greenhouse and really get into some experimental propagation of some of my favorite plants. I might choose that as my next career.