Maybe when you grow up you'll understand!
When I was younger I found all that shit stupid! But now I understand my partner and doing things that turn them on, even if I am not into it, turns me.
I am a roll player though. I like to pretend to be other people or other types of people, all the time. You have to be pretty comfortable with yourself and your sexuality to be able to enjoy that.
Give it a try one time. Once you break through the first couple of sentences it is easy and fun.
When I come, I say my man's name without even knowing I am saying it. But sometimes when fucking I tell him to tell me certain things. It's like a tease. It's fun!
You explore sex and other peoples sex! It much more fun that way! Give it a try and open your mind!