sounds like our tastes are similar, i can choke down the starbucks standard but i really dig the morning mild drip. If you have Tully's around there, try their drip o'the day. it's usually much more mild than the starbucks standard.
For your home brew i have 2 suggestions:
1.
Nicky Beans Kona Prime
2.
Peets New Guinea
Those are my favorites I've found so far. Let me know if you find something you dig.