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Originally posted by RMG
Well having been in a few serious relationships and having carried away some nice emotional scars, I've begun to notice my lack of "feeling". This girl I'm currently dating is starting to get deep emotionally and I simply feel little if anything. Naturally I'm going to slow everything down to avoid fucking her over, but I'm curious how some of you handle this type of deal (I've seen loads of people post about breaking up with the gf and such). How does it work for the rest of you porn miesters?
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the only relationships that work out are ones where i see eye to eye with the girl in question. as soon as that's not happening, the whole thing explodes into hellish flames.
since "sexy" is ranked so unfairly high in my perception, seeing eye to eye can be a problem, especially given that i'm attracted to women who are younger and prettier than i am. I'm also attracted to very smart girls. which is also dangerous. they know exactly how to do the most damage, and they're often uselessly competitive.
figuring out what you really want... and then agreeing to be satisfied. it's impossible for me, since i'm always changing.
as for letting them down easy... that's bullshit, unless they're the sort of person who insist on being lied to. just be straight up.