bibabi, if you don't ever remember anything else I ever say, remember this: (and I've said this before)
Not everything is as it appears.
If you can look at stuff on this board in that light, you will go far.
Learning to distinguish what really IS as it appears and what is show, takes time...... you're not alone. Lot's of people show up, get freaked, and haul ass. This is a good thing. GFY is a great filter for weeding out the weak. And sadly, I got a feeling, as we all get older, we'll eventually be pushed out by our own principles..... the day will come when I am too fucking old to shred a dumbfuck anymore..... (god help me when that happens), and I will become a victim of the very things I'm been promoting in this thread.....
but alas.... I am drunk, and I shall shut up now until someone shows me their titties.