Signup at the following and force a bit of traffic! You'll be rolling in no time.
http://babefanatic.com/webmaster.php
http://hardcorelog.com/webmaster.php
http://exgfs.net/webmaster.php
When I see the traffic, I'll also throw a plug (which send big hits) your way.
Also, you can look for more trades and add your site to a trade database at
http://adulttrades.net