my family is old school so yes I'd want my boyfriend to ask for my dad's permission to marrry me as my relationship with my dad is very close and special. I also believe that if my partner can't get along w/ my family then I can't marry them either. You can't choose your family but you can choose who you marry. It is for me till death do you part.
With all the things in life that have evolved, I think that the sanctity of marriage has gone down the tubes. Too many people give up so easily and don't work hard enough at marriage. Asking for permission is a gesture of respect and also shows that you've taken the time to really think about what you are about to embark on as opposed to just doing it. just my 2cents
