What I am looking for in a man:
Intelligence-I love to talk to my guy...pillow talk is the best. I want someone who can keep up with me intellectually or I will be bored and look for that stimulation elsewhere, and even if it's a non-physical intimacy, it's one I prefer to keep for my partner.
Independence-Don't get clingy. I have a life of my own, and if I CHOOSE to share it with you, be happy for where you fit in and don't try to worm your way into every little corner. I need some for me, and I expect you to have parts of your life that I don't participate in too. It's healthy, mmmkay?
Responsibility-You know what you need to do, so just do it. I don't want to have to remind you to take out the trash and pick up your socks; or support your ass because you are too lazy to work. Nagging is not my style. Just do it your damn self, and I'll take care of my own shit, too, and then we're all happy.
Integrity-This one wraps honesty, loyalty, and a whole bunch of other desirable qualities up in one package. I want to know I can trust you...trust you to not betray my trust, be it with other women, or just not repeating things I've said in confidence. I don't want to have to have a second thought about how you are behaving when I'm not there to remind you of me. *grin*
Open-minded-I am a bit of a freak. I like other chicks..and I am not jealous at all as long as I know where I stand with you, so I have no problems including other women in our sex life. But, though I have yet to exercise the option while in a relationship, if I find myself wanting to be with another man, don't get all insecure and spooked. It doesn't mean I don't want you, and it doesn't mean I am looking for something "better" any more that it means you are when you find yourself attracted to another women. We are all adults here, and if you love me, you will only be making love to me, and either of us with anyone else is just sex. However, ANY sex outside the relationship MUST be with BOTH partners' consent, or else what's the point..just break up and fuck whoever you want, lol.
Funny-Ask anyone who has spent more than five minutes with me, and they'll tell you, I LOVE to laugh. I love guys who can be silly and sarcastic all at the same time. I want someone who can laugh at themselves, and who can laugh at me without making me feel stupid, lol. Sometimes all you have left is your sense of humor, so give it a great workout every day so you know it'll carry you through when you need it.
Attractive-Well, you know, I've been attracted to ALL different kinds of guys. I don't really have a type...and sometimes I'm attracted to someone I wouldn't think I would be, just because they are that cool of a person. Likewise, sometimes someone I find physically HAWT is just revolting to me because they have such shitty attitudes. Chemistry can't be faked, can't be predicted, and can't be denied, lolol.
Passionate-About what? About his career, about his hobbies, abot his friends, about me. Someone who thoroughly enjoys life is intoxicating to be around, and makes everything more intense. That's the sort of person I want to share my life with.
I know that's a lot to ask. But I also know I deserve it.
