hey yvette.. just took a look at your site and noticed you have your mailing address right there on the index page.. you might want to remove that for a start
I also see you say you've been in Playboy and are on ACW for wrestling.. that's info that might make the surfer want to know more about you and sign up so you might want to bring that info more to the forerfront on your pages
There's lots of advice in Webmasters Q & A, I'd definitely recommend that
Good luck!
