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Old 08-06-2005, 05:52 PM  
baddog
So Fucking Banned
 
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Originally Posted by ezrydn
Baddog,

My last Harley was a '95 Springer. I'm currently piloting an '04 Softtail Standard, FXI. You're right on target. Even my wife tells everyone, "He loves the Harley more than me."

The problem comes from when we want to ride "solo." Gals just don't understand that the machine handles much, much differently without a splittail on the bob. Cornering, all-out accel, everything is just "different." We like changing out riding situations and, sometimes that means "she" doesn't get to go. That is what enrages mine. It's not about what we WANT to do, but more, what they THINK we ARE doing.

I've had a viberider in my pass pad now for over a year and I've never told my wife it's there. She'd never understand the humor of the install.

Why do we put so much effort and love into our bikes? Because it's the same relationship I experienced in Nam with my buds. It's a "life/death" relationship where everything's "on the line" and passengers just don't understand that like we do.

Now, I've gotta roll "her" out and give her a good washing!

As stated above, my friend wants to write a self help book for chicks to help them avoid the scenarios I described.

So far I am getting the idea that there are three solutions. 1) Get a hobby. 2) Get your own bike. 3) Deal with it.

Am I missing something?

Be advised I have my own ideas, but this is going to be her book, not mine, so input from multiple sources is desired.
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