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ive been with my man for 6 yrs now.
the first 4 yrs, HELL NO i couldnt have guy friends (although i did have one guy friend that was like a brother to me & he was friends with both of us so it was cool), and he couldnt have female friends either.
BUT, we talked alot of shit over, we trust each other, we ARE human so we're gonna flirt from time to time, but the trust is there on both parts.
if i wanna go out for the night, locally or 2 hours away, i just tell him. he trusts me, rightfully so, not to do anything. do i flirt? oh god ya! he knows i do, im a big flirt by nature. does he know that i dance with other guys at clubs sometimes? nope. he doesnt need to know. i can take care of myself if a situation comes up (a dude grabbing my ass, tryin to kiss me, etc). all he needs to know is that im coming home to him, as faithful as i was when i left the house. period.
he goes and 'plays cards with the boys' every once and while. is he there playing cards for the 12 hours hes gone? probably not. do i care if hes a strip club with the boys throwin some bucks at girlies in thongs? nope. hell, i've gone with him a few times ;)
if you dont give each other space & breathing room in a relationship, you're going to end up killing each other. if you cant trust each other, theres deeper issues that you two need to deal with. i refuse to give up all of my life & fun just because im in a relationship. fuck that. im 24 with no kids and not married. let me live!
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