Hi there,nice site indeed
First of all,its tons of girlies in this biz,who run adult sites.
To get traffic is the hardest thing,if not we all wold be rich(er) lol
First of all,get to know your traffic,see where it comes from,what did they use as a searchword,do you also list you sites true banner exhangce,LL sites,etc ?
Tell me more how you get ya traffic ?
Did you do a good optimize on ya site for SEO ranking /traffic ?
Well,if you want you can hit me up on icq,then i can explain you some "how to get traffic" to your site etc ....