It's easy to want to date within the industry because it's such a relief to hang out with someone who has a clue what you're talking about but it can cause big probs depending on the level of pillow talk you allow.
I personally would rather date outside of the industry... if you find someone who understands and excepts it, it's fine. Unfortunately most people cannot for the life of them, relate to anything we do here. I've actually got to know a couple guys to the point of sharing what I do and have had the big CP word come out of their mouths. The average person cannot usually understand or relate so it's way difficult sometimes.
I guess they watch too much Oprah lol
I also think that casual one night stands within the industry of any kind is a BIG BIG NO NO!! Nothing good can ever come of that. Just limit yourself to an occasional drunk make out session and that's usually thrilling enough with no damage done... haha