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Originally Posted by mrthumbs
Very true.
Theres a BIG difference between talking to someone and communication.
Communication goes both ways.. sincere.
Like you said.. when that stops and all you can do is talk and get an ACK
from the other person with 0 changes thers not much you can do.
Youve gone beyond the point of no return and its game over.
I still believe when that happens in a relationship (a relationship that once worked) youre always 60% responsible.
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i agree - the only person i blame is myself - and i've dealth with a LOT of guilt because of that since i left.
i feel like it's my failure not getting her to change but i also don't feel i have the right to ask someone to change even though i did ask and it didn't happen. closure comes only with accepting that i have to accept that in the end i was greedy about my own needs and felt i had a right to my needs.
that and knowing i couldn't bring a child into the world with someone who's views on major issues were as different from mine as hers were.
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