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Originally Posted by mrthumbs
Like i said: a relationship requires work. That doesnt mean im the only person responsible for the work. Both sides have to work on it.
In your example i want to work on the site to move it in a certain direction but the site says "no".
A. the site is not doing his share of the work (why? no motivation.. ive grown apart from it?)
B. The site wants to work but its not in line with what i have on my mind..
How can that happen? Lack of COMMUNICATION. Death cause numer 1 for relationships.
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discussing something too doesn't mean the idea is transmitted.
in my case i discussed the problem multiple times - she always said yes yes yes and agreed with me but never DID anything about it.
there comes a point where yup yuping doesn't cut it anymore. You can't make that decision overnight - it takes a long time to determine that. But once you KNOW that you're not growing in the same direction as your partner - you KNOW - you TRULY KNOW - and not an overnight decision but something that takes months - then you HAVE to do something about it or you're just hurting the BOTH of you.
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Now read without the word dog.
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