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Originally Posted by mrthumbs
Ive found falling in love is easy and automatic. Most people dont go further than that and shit hits the fan when that auto-part of thje relationship starts fading.
If you want lust and love going that requires WORK. Just like it costs work to maintain your sites. Daily maintenance and fixing issues and keeping an eye on development of things.
You must like someone as a person and share certain interests and emotion to find the motivation to keep making this effort on a daily base.
What you get in return might just be the biggest reward possible tho.
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ok, i 'm on the same page here bro.
for me it was a VERY hard to admit that I needed to feel loved back - that i needed to feel my partner actually did try at the little things for me. I tend to give out a lot and have a hard time receiving so you block that out - but over time you have to feel you're getting SOMETHING back - and without that you have this big empty hole in you.
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