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Originally Posted by The Adult Broker
Loving someone is sometimes hard... pushes us to the limits of what we're capable of and it shows us who we are...but its rewarding if we can just stick it out and not get caught up in all the stuff that really are the issues like vulnerability, anger, fear, hurt, ego, expectations, trust.
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intersting topics to discuss.....
myself - i think it comes down to knowing you can't change someone else. The only person I believe I can change is myself.
Lars (God) gave me some advise over year ago that I cherish in trying to understand relationships. He said - ( and i'm quoting the thought, not his exact words but I hope i got the jist of it) "don't look at what you can change in someone - look for someone you don't have to change."
that's not saying you can't grow with someone though 
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This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!
Now read without the word dog.
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