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Originally Posted by SleazyDream
lust def fades but I beleive if you're with someone you like - as a person, lust can be kept going - might take a little work but in the end I honestly think i want to find someone to love that I ACTUALLY like. that might SOUND simple and stupid but it's actually a HUGE thing.
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Ive found falling in love is easy and automatic. Most people dont go further than that and shit hits the fan when that auto-part of thje relationship starts fading.
If you want lust and love going that requires WORK. Just like it costs work to maintain your sites. Daily maintenance and fixing issues and keeping an eye on development of things.
You must like someone as a person and share certain interests and emotion to find the motivation to keep making this effort on a daily base.
What you get in return might just be the biggest reward possible tho.