Originally Posted by SleazyDream

totally disagree.

I don't want a depend on relationship.

I won't start any relationship with someone leaning on me or with me leaning on someone. those are doomed. You can't hold someone up forever. Also then you're not in a relationship with an equal.

i believe any good realtionship has to start with BOTH people standing on their own - not saying you won't have to lean on your partner during your time together - just saying you CANN"T start like that.