Most really attractive girls with somewhat of a brain are already taken. The ones left are hard to catch, because they play the field like there is no tomorrow. I have had about 9-10 girls come in/out of my life in the last 2 1/2 months, yet I almost find it humorous. One thing I have recently learned (the hard way) is to not let a girl know your feelings about her too soon. I am not even talking about love here either... I mean "I like you, do you want to hangout" type of attitude. Once they know that you are OUT FOR THEM, you are screwed. As a single guy, it is very hard for me to find someone to get close to - without making her feel like she's "needed"... and being needy is a huge turnoff to them.
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