Originally Posted by angel_x3ws

Well.. here's a reading about love.. a friend of mine emailed it to me..

Does one really know what love is?

We often mistake it for a crush, an infatuation or sometimes, even for the sheer
joy in companionship. Sometimes, we think it's a feeling that we have when our
hearts continue throbbing hard when we see that special person. Or when our
knees start to shake and begin to weaken. But can anyone really define love? I
don't think so, not even the ones who think they have felt it, or those who are
feeling it, or those who hope they will feel it. Not even my philosophy teacher.
Because love is not something that you define... it's a decision.

When you feel that you love one person, how can you tell that he or she won't
feel the same way for the next person who comes along? Love is not a feeling,
it's a decision. 'Coz, when it's a feeling, it is something that floats in the
air, something you cannot touch or dare to comprehend. Love, when it's a
decision, makes it solid, makes it a commitment, makes it more lasting and more
real. You can feel that you can be in love 20 million times in a day, but when
you decide to be in love, you can only decide to be in love with one person once
in your lifetime. You commit and you hold on to that decision. And when you turn
your back on that decision, it means you were never in love in the first place.
Love should never fade. Because when it does, it means it's just an emotion.
Love will never fade because a decision, once done, is something you stand up
for and fight for-no matter what. What does "I love you" mean? Some people find
it easy to say the words but what really matter is being ready to stand up for
it when you say those words. Are you ready to face all the consequences after
saying those magical words?

If you can say "I love you" long after all the tough times, all the good times
and after all the words that come hurting you, then the meaning of those words
becomes real. Believe in those words... others are afraid to say them, but
there will come a time when one won't be afraid of
those wordscoming out of one's mouth. It's just a matter of when will
you be strong enough to fight for love.
And you can say the words "no matter what". Saying "I love you" is a
major decision in one's life.

Those words should be sacred, should be kept in your heart until you are ready
to commit, to fight for that feeling and to stand by those words. Is love a
product of destiny? No, I believe there's no such thing as destiny. Thus, if
love is a product of destiny, then you choose to love, you decide to love. Your
destiny is the path that you choose to take.