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Do not, I repeat, do not enter a relationship of any sort with a co-worker. You are doing nothing but asking for trouble.
What are you going to do when the magic wears off? When you guys have your big fight, and now you are forced to see her 5 days a week, 8 hours a day?
What do you do when she decides to be a bitch and accuse you of sexual harassment? Do not think, "this will never happen to me." You are just fooling yourself.
I can think of a dozen cliches, including, don't shit where you eat, that might apply here, but suffice it to say, I am speaking from experience.
Like I have been telling my kids for 20+ years, learn from your mistakes, and whenever possible, learn from the mistakes of others. I also tell them, don't trust whitey, but that is a different story for a different day. The point is, you do not want to date a girl you work with. It is not worth the trouble.
So, you can either listen to me, and thank me later, or ignore my words of wisdom and come back at a later date and say, "you were right, I should have listened to you."
Also, please ignore xenigo's comments. If he thinks he has figured out the mind of a woman just because he turned 26, he is only fooling himself.
Also ignore the comments of any woman telling you to try and recover from the smartest thing you did yet (ie: not going on the date), they do not have your best interest in mind, and misery loves company.
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