Holy crap, I can't believe how many GFYers have "BEEN THERE" ....lol
makes me feel a little better at least
I thought it was a pretty strange situation but obviously not.
ANYWAY, some good advice on this thread. I just caller and told her "Listen, deal with your shit, get this guy the fuck out of your life, and then we'll talk. Until then take care."
*shrug*
-P