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Agent, I got your e-mail - In fact it's what I woke up to today as part of my morning e-mail reading. Sorry to say, I couldn't go with your advice.. I have tried for two years nearly now to settle things with her and rebuild our relationship it just hasn't worked. And no LOVE=SEX/SEX=LOVE is not necessarily true but it sure as hell doesn't help when the woman you are with manipulates you with sex when she realizes she can. It clouds her judgement and ability to handle day to day situations that arise in relationships as well.
I spoke with her last night about 9:00 CST, she was upset of course.. But wasn't irrational, yet. She repeatedly stated how she "Wasn't going to do this" and I kept reminding her that she did not even love me any more, with no response from her (not suprisingly). I never said I didn't love her any more since I wasn't doing this to hurt her I was doing it to make (eventually) all 3 of our lives better in the long term.
She said very very very little. I covered every base from making sure she will get a place that lets her have pets (she loves her dog) to acknowledging the fact that I will pay child support willingly and will do as much as I can to help raise our daughter and take the stress off of her. I am sure it will get ugly tonight, but who knows... Maybe she actually was ready for it this time. She cried but tried to keep it down, and held her guard up rather well.. She didn't really cry till she left the room. She has always been goog at hiding emotions though...
If she goes apeshit or something, then I have to worry.. Remember she has already swiped at me with a damn knife before, she literally is one crazy bitch if you touch the wrong button even slighty.
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